After watching a TV show regarding plastic surgery, can't agree more with the statement from a guest: Some people hardly greeting people is because they are shy, and they are afraid of getting hurt. They just wanna protect themselves.

Not greeting people is a bad habit in me from those old day when I was FAT till now, especially towards guys. 

"Hey, heard that you went out with XXX yesterday, you liked him? He is after u now? He actually go after all the girls who attend that gathering but failed and now he is finally after you, I'm sure you gonna accept him right? "

No matter this is just a joke or not, it doesn't really matter anymore but I will think twice and try to keep myself low without greeting guys or showing too much friendliness so that it wont turn out "I like him" and create chaos that might hurt my feelings. 

Weird right? If you are fat or ugly, something simple may turns complicated. 

刚刚看了《康熙来了》关于整形的那一集，觉得唐志中说的那一番话很有感触下：

"见人好像不太打招呼，其实他们内心是有一点不好意思跟人家打招呼，很怕受伤害，他怕他跟人家打招呼，人家跟他态度不好，其实就只是展现保护自己的样子。"

不打招呼这一个习惯，从自己以前很胖的时候到现在瘦下来后也没改变过，特别是面对男生的时候；我想，很多长的不漂亮又肥胖的女生对于受过的言语伤害都会耿耿于怀吧？其实也没有刻意去记恨什么的，可是心灵上就是有一道默默的声音告诉自己要随时保护自己。

"听说昨天你和某某男生出去耶，你是喜欢他吗？他现在是追求你吧？嘿，他追完那天出席同学会的女生都不成功才来追你的，你一定会接受吧？"

这是善意的提醒还是恶意的调侃都已经不再重要，可是就因为这一番话，我面对男生会不自在，也害怕对异型表示友善，因为单纯的朋友关系，也许会因为你的外表长相而变质。

不过，也因为这些大大小小的言语伤害，才会有今天充满动力和意志力的自己。

忘了谁说过：［不要看胖子平时大喇喇和嬉皮笑脸的，其实他们内心很脆弱也很自卑。］所言不假，对你来说看似无伤大雅的玩笑其实对我们内心的创伤很大；设身处地为别人多想一些，不要拿人家的外表开玩笑好避免无意间的伤害。